Sunday, April 27, 2008

"No Fault Divorce" in RI is a Misnomer! Fault May be Important! Cheating - Abuse - Drugs & Divorce

"No Fault Divorce" in RI is a Misnomer! Fault May be Important! Cheating - Abuse - Drugs & Divorce
By David Slepkow
http://www.slepkowlaw.com


Rhode Island is a "no fault state". Does that mean the assets are always divided 50% to the wife and 50% to the husband in a divorce?


No. A no fault divorce in Rhode Island simply means that a fault grounds are not necessary in order to obtain a divorce in Rhode Island. In other words, all the parties have to prove to obtain a divorce in Rhode Island is irreconcilable differences that led to the breakdown of the marriage. However, the parties are free to allege other various fault grounds as a cause of the break up of the marriage. Even if a divorce is a "no fault " divorce it does not necessarily mean that it will be an uncontested divorce.


"No fault divorce" does not mean that fault is not significant! Fault can be extremely significant in Rhode Island. If a party can prove that the other party is at fault for the breakup of the marriage, then they can seek a disproportionate share of the marital assets. Fault may also be a small factor to determine whether or not a party is entitled to alimony.The following types of behavior could be grounds to obtain more than fifty percent of the marital assets: alcoholism, drug addiction, domestic violence, criminal history, incarceration, extra marital affairs (cheating), abusive behavior, gambling, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, financial mismanagement, criminal activity, abandonment, etc. You should consult with a Rhode Island lawyer / attorney concerning the circumstances of your case and how they will affect your divorce.


What is an Uncontested divorce in Rhode Island?


An uncontested divorce is a divorce in which the parties agree to all issues involved in the case including child custody, child support, visitation, equitable division of the marital domicile (real estate) etc.


What does a "no fault" divorce mean in Rhode Island?


In some states, it is necessary to prove fault grounds in order to obtain a divorce. Under Rhode Island divorce and family law, it is not necessary to prove fault grounds in order to obtain an absolute divorce. All you need to do is prove irreconcilable differences in order to get a divorce. Irreconcilable differences can be anything from lack of communication, different goals and aspirations, affairs, domestic violence, arguing, fell out of love or actually anything. In other words, if either party wants to terminate the marriage, then that party can get a divorce in Rhode Island so long as the other jurisdictional requirements in Rhode Island are met.


How does fault affect a Rhode Island (RI) divorce?


Even though Rhode Island is a no fault state, fault can play a very important role in how the court equitably divides the assets and debts of the parties. After the family court has determined what assets are in fact marital assets, then the court will look at various factors to determine the equitable division of assets. The court may consider the following factors in determining equitable assignment of the property.


a) The length of the marriage;


b) The conduct of the parties during the marriage;


c) The contribution of each of the parties during the marriage in the acquisition, preservation or appreciation in value of their respective estates;


d) The contribution and services of either party as a homemaker;


e) The health and age of the parties;


f) The amount and sources of income of each of the parties


g) The occupation and employability of each of the parties;


h) The opportunity of each party for future acquisition of capital assets and income;


- Source: R.I.G.L. 15-5-16.1 (Rhode Island General Laws)


among other factors which are set forth in R.I.G.L. 15-5-16.1. That statute specifically states that the court can consider any factor which the court so expressly finds to be just and proper.


Please note that in many cases the parties decide to divide the property 50% to the wife and 50% to the husband. One of the most important factors the Rhode Island Family Court judge will look at in granting the husband or wife a disproportionate share of the marital assets is if the other party had an affair, was emotionally or physically abusive or had substantial drug and alcohol problems. The court will also look at other negative conduct in awarding a disproportionate share of the marital assets.


It is not uncommon for a judge to award a 60/40 or 55/45 distribution of marital assets in a divorce if the Family Court finds that one party had an extra marital affair and that affair led to the breakdown of the marriage.


Rhode Island Attorneys legal Notice per RI Rules of Professional Responsibility:


The Rhode Island Supreme Court licenses all lawyers in the general practice of law, but does not license or certify any lawyer as an expert or specialist in any field of practice.


David Slepkow is a Rhode Island lawyer concentrating in divorce, family law, child support, custody and visitation. David has been practicing for over 9 years and is licensed in Rhode Island, Massachusetts and Federal Court. David is a partner at Slepkow Slepkow and Associates inc. The firm has been in existence for 75 years. You can contact David Slepkow by going to http://www.slepkowlaw.com and using the convenient contact form or calling him at 401-437-1100 .


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David Slepkow is a Rhode Island lawyer concentrating in divorce, family law, child support, custody and visitation. David has been practicing for over 9 years and is licensed in Rhode Island, Massachusetts and Federal Court. David is a partner at Slepkow Slepkow and Associates Inc. You can contact David Slepkow by going to http://www.slepkowlaw.com

Friday, April 18, 2008

Sex And Money As The Most Critical Marriage Problems

Marriage is nothing like you envisage it when you are in love. It takes a lot of effort, compromise and selflessness to make a marriage work. At the same time, you should be able to draw a line when the compromise comes only from your side and you should be able to disentangle yourself emotionally when such extreme scenarios pop up. It is hard to have a happy marriage as those who are happily would heartily agree.
What Are The Most Important Marriage Problems?

There are many, many, many problems that you would find in a marriage and most of these start from day one. Things like whether you should have the windows open at night or have the air conditioner on; whether the toilet seat should be left closed or open; who uses the bathroom first, and so on. You will find that these are some of the most acidic irritants in your marital life.

On a more serious scale most marriage problems start from differences about sex and money. Sex is a topic that few are comfortable with, leave alone feeling free to discuss it. However, without open communication about sex, marriages soon become a battle field.

Sex As The Root Of Marriage Problems

What happens is that the each one might want things done differently to achieve sexual satisfaction while making love. If these preferences remain hidden sex would not satisfy them and therefore it would be gradually avoided. When sexual intimacy becomes secondary in married life, this is a sign of serious trouble. Therefore, couples need to communicate with each other and express what makes them happy during love making. It is very important that the couple is satisfied with each other in the bedroom.

Money As The Root Of Marriage Problems

The other major problem in a marriage is the understanding reached on how to spend money. If there is one person earning the issue could become even touchier. So, in order to avoid some serious marriage problems you would need to come together and set very clear parameters about how and where money should be spent. Whenever investments or major purchases are planned a family meeting is a must. Both spouses should be equally involved in such decisions.

Though sex and money are often the most critical problems encountered in any marriage, you would not find these topics as a hot priority for discussion among couples. Unless there is an open and clear dialogue on these two topics in particular, no marriage can be considered safe.

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Thursday, April 17, 2008

How To Overcome Jealousy and Build More Trust Now--Before Jealousy Ruins Your Relationship or Marriage...

If jealousy is an issue in your relationship or marriage, then you already know that jealous feelings and jealousy can be frustrating, annoying, painful and even embarrassing.

Any expert will agree that, if left unchecked, jealous feelings and jealousy can single-handedly destroy an otherwise good or even great relationship.

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Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Finances Part of Marital Intimacy

If you're married, you're probably sexually intimate and hopefully, emotionally intimate as well. But there may be one area of intimacy that you're missing - and that could be a big mistake!
Culturally, we link the concept of intimacy with romance, not realizing that we are talking about two different things. Romance is make-believe, it's Disney, it's a stage set - and it's great.

But not when it comes to money, which operates in the real world. When we think about money romantically, we're basically not thinking at all. We're just fantasizing.

We need a wider definition of intimacy, a concept we currently link with the physical, sexual or emotional revealing of ourselves to another person in a most private way. We need to think of intimacy as transparency, especially when it comes to marital finances because so much is at stake.

Unfortunately, full financial disclosure is still treated as taboo in many marriages, especially when the man makes the big money decisions. A wife may be contributing a significant amount of money through her work, yet may go decades knowing little about her shared finances.

A wife shouldn't have to learn about financial insecurity at a time of crisis in her life, such as divorce or widowhood. It's also the worst possible time to learn about the basics of money management.

The problem goes deeper than that. Failure to achieve financial intimacy in your marriage creates a climate of resentment, suspicion and lack of trust. Other important areas of your marriage are bound to be affected if you're feeling angry, patronized or excluded from participating in one of the most important parts of your marriage - your finances.

Sex, honesty, closeness, trust, parenting - all will be affected on a conscious or subconscious level. Bad feelings don't go away; they redistribute. One acquaintance put it very colorfully: "Why should I keep having to ask about our net worth and be told I'm the biggest nag on the planet?"."

One can argue that intimacy is the opposite of romance. Intimacy provides a clearer picture of a situation or another person because it's based on what truly is real, rather than what we want to be real. Romance, on the other hand, seeks to create a quality or environment that is remote from everyday life.

Without financial intimacy, your can't really claim an equal relationship between husband and wife. It's not about trusting, hoping or assuming that your husband is doing everything right. Everything your husband does financially affects you, whether you know about it or not.

That's what being an equal partner means. You are part of a fifty/fifty relationship. In fact, it has nearly the same structural characteristics of a business partnership.

As a partner, you have a right, and the law supports your right, to all the financial information about your partnership. If you are the primary breadwinner in your family, your husband has that same right.

If you think of yourself as a partner, not specifically as a wife, you will act like a partner and take a fuller role in asserting your right to equal access to financial information. You may earn less than your husband, but you take the same amount of financial risk for decisions made within your partnership.

If you find yourself widowed or divorced, some things will be immediately clear. You will need financial resources and the skills to manage them.

You will need to understand basic finances so you won't have to rely on family members, friends or a financial advisor to tell you what to do.

If your marriage ends, you will need to act as your own agent. You will need to know how to do the financial things that you relied on your husband to do for you.

Take the reins of financial responsiblity and step up to the plate. Participate, understand, keep a copy of the records, ask questions, and assume that you have a right to all the financial information that affects you both.

The law supports your right to have it!



About the Author
Helga Hayse is author of "Don't Worry about a Thing, Dear" - Why Women Need Financial intimacy. She teaches women about participating and understanding their marital finances. She speaks to financial planners and estate planners about how to encourage crucial conversations within families. http://www.financialintimacy.com

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

How to be certain He/ she is having an affair

Some of these signs of a cheating spouse are "tongue in cheek" while others are tell tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife.
Signs of a Cheating Spouse:

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy.

2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)

3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.

5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.

6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.

7) She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.

8) He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.

9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.

10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.

12) He becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.

13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?"

14) He buys himself new underwear.

15) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.

16) The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.

17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.

23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.

25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.

26) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.

27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.

29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's house and had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.

30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.

31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.

33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.

34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.

35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.

36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.

37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.

39) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

40) She has a "glow" about her.

41) Atypical erratic behavior.

42) He sneaks out of the house.

43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed.

44) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

45) He tells you that you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.




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Sunday, April 13, 2008

Conquering Jealousy: How To Combat Jealousy In Your Life

Unpleasant though the gut-wrenching, pulse-quickening, rage-inspiring emotion that jealousy is, we have all experienced this feeling to a greater or lesser degree. Jealousy is envious resentment of another person's possessions, achievements, even that person's very existence! The words "envy" and "jealousy" are often used synonymously, but there is a difference: envy refers to resentment of someone else's belongings or successes, whereas jealousy refers more to resentment engendered by the feeling that another person has something which should by rights belongs to the jealous person. There are other emotions involved in jealousy, too - suspicion, fear, rejection - altogether a nasty cocktail!
Some forms of jealousy are beneficial such as the healthy emotion that rouses a husband to protect his wife from another man, but jealousy is usually an unhealthy emotion, and can be very detrimental to relationships. Wasn't it William Shakespeare who said, "Oh, beware ... of jealousy; it is the green-eyed monster."

Although conquering jealousy is not impossible, it can be very difficult. Many thinkers have considered how to cope with jealousy and learning some of these techniques can help the person whose angry possessiveness gives rise to many interpersonal problems.

The first step in conquering jealousy is to analyze your emotions. Why are you jealous? Perhaps you feel insecure, and lack confidence in your own abilities. Are you overly dependent on someone else? Do you feel threatened in some way? Once you've figured out what exactly is bothering you, you can begin to get rid of the jealousy.

You must realize that you have a choice as far as jealousy is concerned. Perhaps you can't help that initial surge of emotion, you can deal with it rationally and keep it under control.

Try to avoid jealousy in the first place by making relationships, for example, clear. Keep your partner informed of what you are looking for, and what you do. Build mutual trust and remember that everyone needs space.

There are some other simple ways to overcome jealousy. Remind yourself of things that you excel at that the person you are jealous of cannot do. Count your own blessings. This positive attitude will help get rid of the sour taste of jealousy. Meditation and calm reflection is another method of doing this.

Practice! Alina Ruigrok offers these simple steps to help in conquering jealousy. Acknowledge your jealousy.

* Locate its source * Question it * Make the necessary changes * Combine jealousy with a more rational emotion * Practice controlling your jealousy

Getting a grip on your emotions can help you avoid unpleasant scenes, not to speak of making you feel much more positive and happy in relationships. Don't let a fear of loss lead you to the loss in actuality.

If it's not controlled, jealousy can creep up on us and start to eat away at us. It often does this in small steps so that you don't notice the changes happening. Get control of your jealousy - don't let it control you!



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Marriage Turmoil Is Often Tied to Money Issues

Money makes the world go around or so they say. Well, money and marriage have their own relationship. If you have been arguing about money, you should know that this type of argument can be avoided.

What is the number one thing that couples of all ages argue about? Money. No matter how wealthy you are, money will always be an issue. In fact, some people believe that the more money you have, the more money problems you have too, and this applies to marriage more than most people know. When a couple first becomes engaged, they often think that money difficulties will never come their way, though this is far from the truth.

Even though it's a nice idea to want to share everything that you have with your spouse, it is simply not realistic. Instead, keep separate bank accounts, and keep one joint bank account that you will both contribute to. Why? Believe it or not, many couples constantly fight about whose money is in a joint bank account, and this can become a consistent problem. If you want to buy things together, decide upon an amount that you can both contribute to a joint account each month, and use that money to purchase things that you both want.

Money arguments in marriage have become such a large part of many married couple's lives that financial advisors now talk to each person within a couple separately. Sure, you may have the same goals, but many of your goals will be extremely personal - and you shouldn't combine your funds with your partner unless you both want the very same thing. In fact, investing together never works out due to the fact that each person will be different when it comes to risk taking.

So, if you shouldn't have the same bank account and you shouldn't invest together - when can you combine your money? Couples will find that life is a lot easier if they only spend money together when both parties are interested. If you want a dining room table, but your partner doesn't, buy the table on your own. However, if you both want the table, split the cost equally. See how easy it is to remain financially free?

There will always be financial problems in marriage, it's only natural when two become one. Still, try to keep your money separate. In the end, it never pays to combine all of your fund, though investing together - when you both want the same thing - can be a great way to show that you trust one another.

Aazdak Alisimo writes about marriage problems for MarriageProblemCounselors.com.

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Saturday, April 5, 2008

Getting divorced from your wife?

Divorce lawyers are called in to deal with the break up of a relationship and the important task of finding one must begin; some guidelines on what to look for are listed below: *Fully qualified to deal with your case *Have the right approach *A conscientious person Ideally your divorce attorney should be spending half their time dealing with divorce cases and preferably one who is a good mediator. Still, you also need to feel at ease with them; someone who immediately instills a sense of trust. Adversarial attorneys will use the hammer to crack a walnut approach which often happens when these cases go to court whereas an attorney who specializes in mediation will take a much calmer approach. Some of the work load will be yours so you need to ensure you are well prepared each time you speak with your divorce lawyer and know exactly what they need from you and vice versa. This is best done by knowing exactly what you intend to speak to them about and write down questions and answers in addition to when, and the length of the conversation on each occasion. Physical meetings will cost more so if an item can be dealt with by mail or on the phone this will save money. An attorney does not come cheap so use them only for the purpose you hired them for, legal advice, they are not there as an emotional problem solver, there are other professionals who specialize in that area. When you talk to a divorce lawyer, stick to the facts and don't complain about things your spouse did unless you actually want your lawyer to do something about. The most important aspect for you to get sorted out is the control of the situation which should be yours and then you will be able to use your lawyer more effectively. It is important they know any decisions regarding the divorce are yours to make and they are there for their knowledge and experience in providing legal recommendations. Ask that you be sent copies of all documents and letters and let them know that you expect phone calls to be answered by the next working day after all you are the one paying the bills. Don't think that you have to enter into proceedings armed with a lawyer in tow as they aren't always necessary although you may wish to speak to one just for advice on a marital settlement for example. This means that a little research is necessary on your part but once you have completed this, it is much easier to contact a lawyer to ask them specific questions and how they see your case concluding. There is no reason your divorce lawyer cannot be used purely in a consultancy role to help draw up a marital settlement and if need be can step in if things do not go according to plan. You may like to consider the following resource to help you with your research: http://tinyurl.com/2646nm


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The author works as an accoutant in the financial services industry and in his spare times writes articles for the internet and his own websites.

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THE TALE OF THE MOUSE AND A MOUSE TRAP

A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife open a package. "What food might this contain?"

The mouse wondered - he was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap. Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning.

"There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"

The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, "Mr. Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it."

The mouse turned to the pig and told him, "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"

The pig sympathized, but said, I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured you are in my prayers."

The mouse turned to the cow and said, "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"

The cow said, "Wow, Mr. Mouse. I'm sorry for you, but it's no skin off my nose." Therefore, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer's mousetrap-- alone.

That very night a sound was heard throughout the house -- like the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey.

The farmer's wife rushed to see what was caught.

In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught. The snake bit the farmer's wife.

The farmer rushed her to the hospital and she returned home with a fever.

Everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup's main ingredient.

Nevertheless, his wife's sickness continued, so friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock. To feed them, the farmer butchered the pig.

The farmer's wife did not get well; she died. So many people came for her funeral; the farmer had the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them.

The mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness.

Therefore, the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and think it does not concern you, remember -- when one of us is threatened, we are all at risk. We are all involved in this journey called life.

We must keep an eye out for one another and make an extra effort to encourage one another.

THE MORAL OF THIS STORY IS:

WHEN THERE IS A PROBLEM, INJUSTICE, AND EVIL THAT AFFECT OTHER HUMAN BEINGS, NO MATTER THEIR RACE, ETHNICITY, GENDER, RELIGION AND CLASS, SPEAK UP AND REACH OUT AND HELP TO FIGHT THEM SO AS TO PROMOTE JUSTICE, FAIRNESS, CIVIL AND HUMAN RIGHTS BECAUSE IF YOU DO NOT BUT SIT ON THE FENCE AND DO NOTHING, YOU COULD BE AFFECTED AND BE A VICTIM OF THE SAME INJUSTICE, TYRANNY AND EVIL SOMEDAY AND IF THAT HAPPENS, YOU SHOULD NOT EXPECT ANYONE TO HELP YOU. TO GET HELP, YOU MUST START BY HELPING OTHERS!

This world is ours and it is our responsibility to take good care of it or we shall lose it and become homeless!

This world belongs to you.

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All you need are love for humanity, compassion and care for the well-beings of others and goodwill.

The more you do for others, the more God and the Universe shall shower you with infinite blessings because all lives and human beings are part of God and the Universe!

You can make a difference no matter how little is your contribution to world peace and prosperity; no matter your race, gender, religion, political ideology and party, your education, occupation or country that you come from, including United States of America, USA, United Kingdom, UK (England, Scotland, Wales, Northern Ireland) , Canada , Afghanistan , Albania , Algeria American Samoa , Andorra , Angola , Anguilla , Antarctica , Antigua & Barbuda , Argentina , Armenia , Aruba , Australia , Austria , Azerbaijan , Bahamas , Bahrain , Bangladesh , Barbados , Belarus , Belgium , Belize , Benin , Bermuda , Bhutan , Bolivia , Bonaire , Bosnia-Herzegovina , Botswana , Brazil , British Virgin Islands , Brunei Darrusalam , Bulgaria , Burkina Faso , Burundi , Cambodia , Cameroon , Cape Verde , Cayman Islands , Central African Republic , Chad , Channel Islands , Chile , China , Christmas Island , Colombia , Comoros , Congo , Congo (Dem, Rep,) , Cook Islands , Costa Rica , Côte d'Ivoire , Croatia , Cuba , Curacao , Cyprus , Czech Republic , Denmark , Djibouti , Dominica , Dominican Republic , East Timor , Ecuador , Egypt , El Salvador , Equatorial Guinea , Eritrea , Estonia , Ethiopia , Falkland Islands and Dependencies , Faroe Islands , Fiji , Finland , France , French Guiana , French Polynesia , Gabon , Gambia , Gaza , Georgia , Germany , Ghana , Gibraltar , Greece , Greenland , Grenada , Guadeloupe , Guam , Guatemala , Guinea , Guinea-Bissau , Guyana , Haiti , Hawaiian Islands , Honduras , Hong Kong , Hungary , Iceland , India , Indonesia , Iran , Iraq , Isle Of Man , Israel , Italy , Ivory Coast , Jamaica , Japan , Johnston Atoll , Jordan , Kazakhstan , Kenya , Kiribati , Korea (North) , Korea (South) , Kuwait , Kyrgyzstan , Laos , Latvia , Lebanon , Leeward Islands , Lesotho , Liberia , Libya , Liechtenstein , Lithuania , Luxembourg , Macau , Macedonia , Madagascar , Malawi , Malaysia , Maldives , Mali , Malta , Marshall Islands , Martinique , Mauritania , Mauritius , Mexico , Micronesia (Federated States) , Midway Islands , Moldova , Monaco , Mongolia , Montserrat , Morocco , Mosquito Coast , Mozambique , Myanmar (Burma) , Namibia , Nauru , Navassa Island , Nepal , Netherlands , Netherlands Antilles , New Caledonia , New Zealand , Nicaragua , Niger , Nigeria , Niue , Norfolk Island , Northern Mariana Islands , Norway , Oman , Pakistan , Palau , Palestine , Panama , Papua New Guinea , Paracel Islands , Paraguay , Peru , Philippines , Pitcairn Islands , Poland , Portugal , Puerto Rico , Qatar , Reunion , Romania , Russia , Rwanda , Ryukyu Islands , Saint Helena , Saint Kitts and Nevis , Saint Lucia , Saint Pierre & Miquelon , Saint Vincent & The Grenadines , Samoa , San Marino , São Tomé & Príncipe , Saudi Arabia , Senegal , Serbia , Seychelles , Sierra Leone , Singapore , Slovakia , Slovenia , Solomon Islands , Somalia , South Africa , Spain , Sri Lanka , Sudan , Suriname , Swaziland , Sweden , Switzerland , Syria , Taiwan , Tajikistan , Tanzania , Thailand , Togo , Tonga , Transkei , Trinidad & Tobago , Tunisia , Turkey , Turkmenistan , Turks and Caicos Islands , Tuvalu , US Virgin Islands , Uganda , Ukraine , United Arab Emirates , Upper Volta , Uruguay , Uzbekistan , Vanuatu , Vatican City (Holy See) , Venezuela , Vietnam , Wake Island , Windward Islands , Yemen , Yugoslavia , Zaire , Zambia , Zimbabwe.

Be a hero today!

Thank you!

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